xfs: validate ondisk/incore dquot flags

While loading dquot records off disk, make sure that the quota type
flags are the same between the incore dquot and the ondisk dquot.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Chandan Babu R <chandanrlinux@gmail.com>