fuse: add fuse_iqueue_ops callbacks

The /dev/fuse device uses fiq->waitq and fasync to signal that requests are
available.  These mechanisms do not apply to virtio-fs.  This patch
introduces callbacks so alternative behavior can be used.

Note that queue_interrupt() changes along these lines:

  spin_lock(&fiq->waitq.lock);
  wake_up_locked(&fiq->waitq);
+ kill_fasync(&fiq->fasync, SIGIO, POLL_IN);
  spin_unlock(&fiq->waitq.lock);
- kill_fasync(&fiq->fasync, SIGIO, POLL_IN);

Since queue_request() and queue_forget() also call kill_fasync() inside
the spinlock this should be safe.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>