vdpa: Allow to configure max data virtqueues

Add netlink support to configure the max virtqueue pairs for a device.
At least one pair is required. The maximum is dictated by the device.

Example:
$ vdpa dev add name vdpa-a mgmtdev auxiliary/mlx5_core.sf.1 max_vqp 4

Signed-off-by: Eli Cohen <elic@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220105114646.577224-6-elic@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>