ceph: remove SLAB_MEM_SPREAD flag usage

The SLAB_MEM_SPREAD flag used to be implemented in SLAB, which was
removed as of v6.8-rc1, so it became a dead flag since the commit
16a1d968 ("mm/slab: remove mm/slab.c and slab_def.h"). And the
series [1] went on to mark it obsolete to avoid confusion for users.
Here we can just remove all its users, which has no functional change.

[1] https://lore.kernel.org/all/20240223-slab-cleanup-flags-v2-1-02f1753e8303@suse.cz/



Signed-off-by: Chengming Zhou <zhouchengming@bytedance.com>
Reviewed-by: Xiubo Li <xiubli@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Ilya Dryomov <idryomov@gmail.com>