mptcp: fix data races on local_id

The local address id is accessed lockless by the NL PM, add
all the required ONCE annotation. There is a caveat: the local
id can be initialized late in the subflow life-cycle, and its
validity is controlled by the local_id_valid flag.

Remove such flag and encode the validity in the local_id field
itself with negative value before initialization. That allows
accessing the field consistently with a single read operation.

Fixes: 0ee4261a

 ("mptcp: implement mptcp_pm_remove_subflow")
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Mat Martineau <martineau@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Matthieu Baerts (NGI0) <matttbe@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>