vfio/ccw: create a parent struct

Move the stuff associated with the mdev parent (and thus the
subchannel struct) into its own struct, and leave the rest in
the existing private structure.

The subchannel will point to the parent, and the parent will point
to the private, for the areas where one or both are needed. Further
separation of these structs will follow.

Signed-off-by: Eric Farman <farman@linux.ibm.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Rosato <mjrosato@linux.ibm.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221104142007.1314999-2-farman@linux.ibm.com
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>