libnvdimm: replace mutex_is_locked() warnings with lockdep_assert_held

For warnings that should only ever trigger during development and
testing replace WARN statements with lockdep_assert_held. The lockdep
pattern is prevalent, and these paths are are well covered by libnvdimm
unit tests.

Reported-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>