ice: use modern kernel API for kick

The kernel gained a new interface for drivers to use to combine tail
bump (doorbell) and BQL updates, attempt to use those new interfaces.

Signed-off-by: Jesse Brandeburg <jesse.brandeburg@intel.com>
Tested-by: Gurucharan G <gurucharanx.g@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>