bpf: sockhash, disallow bpf_tcp_close and update in parallel

After latest lock updates there is no longer anything preventing a
close and recvmsg call running in parallel. Additionally, we can
race update with close if we close a socket and simultaneously update
if via the BPF userspace API (note the cgroup ops are already run
with sock_lock held).

To resolve this take sock_lock in close and update paths.

Reported-by:  <syzbot+b680e42077a0d7c9a0c4@syzkaller.appspotmail.com>
Fixes: e9db4ef6 ("bpf: sockhash fix omitted bucket lock in sock_close")
Signed-off-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>