iavf: Fix VLAN_V2 addition/rejection

Fix VLAN addition, so that PF driver does not reject whole VLAN batch.
Add VLAN reject handling, so rejected VLANs, won't litter VLAN filter
list. Fix handling of active_(c/s)vlans, so it will be possible to
re-add VLAN filters for user.
Without this patch, after changing trust to off, with VLAN filters
saturated, no VLAN is added, due to PF rejecting addition.

Fixes: 92fc5085

 ("iavf: Restrict maximum VLAN filters for VIRTCHNL_VF_OFFLOAD_VLAN_V2")
Signed-off-by: Przemyslaw Patynowski <przemyslawx.patynowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jedrzej Jagielski <jedrzej.jagielski@intel.com>
Tested-by: Konrad Jankowski <konrad0.jankowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>