xfrm/compat: Translate 32-bit user_policy from sockptr

Provide compat_xfrm_userpolicy_info translation for xfrm setsocketopt().
Reallocate buffer and put the missing padding for 64-bit message.

Signed-off-by: Dmitry Safonov <dima@arista.com>
Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>