fs: dlm: invalid buffer access in lookup error

This patch will evaluate the message length if a dlm opts header can fit
in before accessing it if a node lookup fails. The invalid sequence
error means that the version detection failed and an unexpected message
arrived. For debugging such situation the type of arrived message is
important to know.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>