md: extend disks_mutex coverage

disks_mutex is intended to serialize md_alloc.  Extended it to also cover
the kobject_uevent call and getting the sysfs dirent to help reducing
error handling complexity.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>