xfs: selectively keep sick inodes in memory

It's important that the filesystem retain its memory of sick inodes for
a little while after problems are found so that reports can be collected
about what was wrong.  Don't let inode reclamation free sick inodes
unless we're unmounting or the fs already went down.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Carlos Maiolino <cmaiolino@redhat.com>