RDMA/qedr: Don't reset QP when queues aren't flushed

Fail QP state transition from error to reset if SQ/RQ are not empty
and still in the process of flushing out the queued work entries.

Signed-off-by: Ram Amrani <Ram.Amrani@cavium.com>
Signed-off-by: Michal Kalderon <Michal.Kalderon@cavium.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>