netdev: add queue stat for alloc failures

Rx alloc failures are commonly counted by drivers.
Support reporting those via netdev-genl queue stats.

Acked-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Amritha Nambiar <amritha.nambiar@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Xuan Zhuo <xuanzhuo@linux.alibaba.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240306195509.1502746-3-kuba@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>