dm: use queue_limits_set

Use queue_limits_set which validates the limits and takes care of
updating the readahead settings instead of directly assigning them to
the queue.  For that make sure all limits are actually updated before
the assignment.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240228225653.947152-4-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>