sock: Introduce sk->sk_prot->psock_update_sk_prot()

Currently sockmap calls into each protocol to update the struct
proto and replace it. This certainly won't work when the protocol
is implemented as a module, for example, AF_UNIX.

Introduce a new ops sk->sk_prot->psock_update_sk_prot(), so each
protocol can implement its own way to replace the struct proto.
This also helps get rid of symbol dependencies on CONFIG_INET.

Signed-off-by: Cong Wang <cong.wang@bytedance.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20210331023237.41094-11-xiyou.wangcong@gmail.com