net/ism: Add new API for client registration

Add a new API that allows other drivers to concurrently access ISM devices.
To do so, we introduce a new API that allows other modules to register for
ISM device usage. Furthermore, we move the GID to struct ism, where it
belongs conceptually, and rename and relocate struct smcd_event to struct
ism_event.
This is the first part of a bigger overhaul of the interfaces between SMC
and ISM.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Raspl <raspl@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jan Karcher <jaka@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Wenjia Zhang <wenjia@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>