SUNRPC: More fixes for backlog congestion

commit e86be3a0 upstream.

Ensure that we fix the XPRT_CONGESTED starvation issue for RDMA as well
as socket based transports.
Ensure we always initialise the request after waking up from the backlog
list.

Fixes: e877a88d ("SUNRPC in case of backlog, hand free slots directly to waiting task")
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>