mptcp: introduce and use mptcp_try_coalesce()

Factor-out existing code, will be re-used by the
next patch.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>