fs: add a FMODE_BUF_WASYNC flags for f_mode

This introduces the flag FMODE_BUF_WASYNC. If devices support async
buffered writes, this flag can be set. It also modifies the check in
generic_write_checks to take async buffered writes into consideration.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Roesch <shr@fb.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Christian Brauner (Microsoft) <brauner@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220623175157.1715274-8-shr@fb.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>