selftests: make order checking verbose in msg_zerocopy selftest

We find that when lock debugging is on, notifications may not come in
order. Thus, we have order checking outputs managed by cfg_verbose, to
avoid too many outputs in this case.

Fixes: 07b65c5b

 ("test: add msg_zerocopy test")
Signed-off-by: Zijian Zhang <zijianzhang@bytedance.com>
Signed-off-by: Xiaochun Lu <xiaochun.lu@bytedance.com>
Reviewed-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20240701225349.3395580-3-zijianzhang@bytedance.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>