nbd: handle racing with error'ed out commands

We hit the following warning in production

print_req_error: I/O error, dev nbd0, sector 7213934408 flags 80700
------------[ cut here ]------------
refcount_t: underflow; use-after-free.
WARNING: CPU: 25 PID: 32407 at lib/refcount.c:190 refcount_sub_and_test_checked+0x53/0x60
Workqueue: knbd-recv recv_work [nbd]
RIP: 0010:refcount_sub_and_test_checked+0x53/0x60
Call Trace:
 blk_mq_free_request+0xb7/0xf0
 blk_mq_complete_request+0x62/0xf0
 recv_work+0x29/0xa1 [nbd]
 process_one_work+0x1f5/0x3f0
 worker_thread+0x2d/0x3d0
 ? rescuer_thread+0x340/0x340
 kthread+0x111/0x130
 ? kthread_create_on_node+0x60/0x60
 ret_from_fork+0x1f/0x30
---[ end trace b079c3c67f98bb7c ]---

This was preceded by us timing out everything and shutting down the
sockets for the device.  The problem is we had a request in the queue at
the same time, so we completed the request twice.  This can actually
happen in a lot of cases, we fail to get a ref on our config, we only
have one connection and just error out the command, etc.

Fix this by checking cmd->status in nbd_read_stat.  We only change this
under the cmd->lock, so we are safe to check this here and see if we've
already error'ed this command out, which would indicate that we've
completed it as well.

Reviewed-by: Mike Christie <mchristi@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>