net/mlx5: fs, delete the FTE when there are no rules attached to it

When an FTE has no children is means all the rules where removed
and the FTE can be deleted regardless of the dests_size value.
While dests_size should be 0 when there are no children
be extra careful not to leak memory or get firmware syndrome
if the proper bookkeeping of dests_size wasn't done.

Signed-off-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Maor Gottlieb <maorg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>