devlink: update the code in netns move to latest helpers

devlink_pernet_pre_exit() is the only obvious place which takes
the instance lock without using the devl_ helpers. Update the code
and move the error print after releasing the reference
(having unlock and put together feels slightly idiomatic).

Reviewed-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>