ice: add flag to distinguish reset from .ndo_bpf in XDP rings config

Commit 6624e780 ("ice: split ice_vsi_setup into smaller functions")
has placed ice_vsi_free_q_vectors() after ice_destroy_xdp_rings() in
the rebuild process. The behaviour of the XDP rings config functions is
context-dependent, so the change of order has led to
ice_destroy_xdp_rings() doing additional work and removing XDP prog, when
it was supposed to be preserved.

Also, dependency on the PF state reset flags creates an additional,
fortunately less common problem:

* PFR is requested e.g. by tx_timeout handler
* .ndo_bpf() is asked to delete the program, calls ice_destroy_xdp_rings(),
  but reset flag is set, so rings are destroyed without deleting the
  program
* ice_vsi_rebuild tries to delete non-existent XDP rings, because the
  program is still on the VSI
* system crashes

With a similar race, when requested to attach a program,
ice_prepare_xdp_rings() can actually skip setting the program in the VSI
and nevertheless report success.

Instead of reverting to the old order of function calls, add an enum
argument to both ice_prepare_xdp_rings() and ice_destroy_xdp_rings() in
order to distinguish between calls from rebuild and .ndo_bpf().

Fixes: efc2214b

 ("ice: Add support for XDP")
Reviewed-by: Igor Bagnucki <igor.bagnucki@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Larysa Zaremba <larysa.zaremba@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Tested-by: Chandan Kumar Rout <chandanx.rout@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240603-net-2024-05-30-intel-net-fixes-v2-4-e3563aa89b0c@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>