RDMA/cma: Protect bind_list and listen_list while finding matching cm id

The bind_list and listen_list must be accessed under a lock, add the
missing locking around the access in cm_ib_id_from_event()

In addition add lockdep asserts to make it clearer what the locking
semantic is here.

  general protection fault: 0000 [#1] SMP NOPTI
  CPU: 226 PID: 126135 Comm: kworker/226:1 Tainted: G OE 4.12.14-150.47-default #1 SLE15
  Hardware name: Cray Inc. Windom/Windom, BIOS 0.8.7 01-10-2020
  Workqueue: ib_cm cm_work_handler [ib_cm]
  task: ffff9c5a60a1d2c0 task.stack: ffffc1d91f554000
  RIP: 0010:cma_ib_req_handler+0x3f1/0x11b0 [rdma_cm]
  RSP: 0018:ffffc1d91f557b40 EFLAGS: 00010286
  RAX: deacffffffffff30 RBX: 0000000000000001 RCX: ffff9c2af5bb6000
  RDX: 00000000000000a9 RSI: ffff9c5aa4ed2f10 RDI: ffffc1d91f557b08
  RBP: ffffc1d91f557d90 R08: ffff9c340cc80000 R09: ffff9c2c0f901900
  R10: 0000000000000000 R11: 0000000000000001 R12: deacffffffffff30
  R13: ffff9c5a48aeec00 R14: ffffc1d91f557c30 R15: ffff9c5c2eea3688
  FS: 0000000000000000(0000) GS:ffff9c5c2fa80000(0000) knlGS:0000000000000000
  CS: 0010 DS: 0000 ES: 0000 CR0: 0000000080050033
  CR2: 00002b5cc03fa320 CR3: 0000003f8500a000 CR4: 00000000003406e0
  Call Trace:
  ? rdma_addr_cancel+0xa0/0xa0 [ib_core]
  ? cm_process_work+0x28/0x140 [ib_cm]
  cm_process_work+0x28/0x140 [ib_cm]
  ? cm_get_bth_pkey.isra.44+0x34/0xa0 [ib_cm]
  cm_work_handler+0xa06/0x1a6f [ib_cm]
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x34/0x70
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x34/0x70
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x40/0x70
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x34/0x70
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x40/0x70
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x34/0x70
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x40/0x70
  ? __switch_to+0x7c/0x4b0
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x40/0x70
  ? __switch_to_asm+0x34/0x70
  process_one_work+0x1da/0x400
  worker_thread+0x2b/0x3f0
  ? process_one_work+0x400/0x400
  kthread+0x118/0x140
  ? kthread_create_on_node+0x40/0x40
  ret_from_fork+0x22/0x40
  Code: 00 66 83 f8 02 0f 84 ca 05 00 00 49 8b 84 24 d0 01 00 00 48 85 c0 0f 84 68 07 00 00 48 2d d0 01
  00 00 49 89 c4 0f 84 59 07 00 00 <41> 0f b7 44 24 20 49 8b 77 50 66 83 f8 0a 75 9e 49 8b 7c 24 28

Fixes: 4c21b5bc

 ("IB/cma: Add net_dev and private data checks to RDMA CM")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20200616104304.2426081-1-leon@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Mark Zhang <markz@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Maor Gottlieb <maorg@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>