[SCSI] fcoe: Use NETIF_F_FCOE_MTU flag to set up max frame size (lport->mfs)

Add a define of FCOE_MTU as 2158 bytes and use FCOE_MTU when the LLD is found
to support NETIF_F_FCOE_MTU. The lport->mfs is then calculated out of the
2158 FCOE_MTU. Otherwise, we stick with the netdev->mtu, i.e., LAN MTU. Also,
change the notification on NETDEV_CHANGEMTU event to bypass changing mfs when
LAN MTU is changed if NETIF_F_FCOE_MTU is supported.

Signed-off-by: Yi Zou <yi.zou@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Robert Love <robert.w.love@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@suse.de>