net/mlx5: Expose bits for enabling out-of-order by default

Add needed HW bits for enabling out-of-order by default and
use go_back_n when out-of-order is not needed.

Signed-off-by: Or Har-Toov <ohartoov@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/75d6dfe263989a05c08c43406132b336ea12d00a.1679230449.git.leon@kernel.org


Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>