vfio: Make vfio_device_ops pass a 'struct vfio_device *' instead of 'void *'

This is the standard kernel pattern, the ops associated with a struct get
the struct pointer in for typesafety. The expected design is to use
container_of to cleanly go from the subsystem level type to the driver
level type without having any type erasure in a void *.

Reviewed-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Cornelia Huck <cohuck@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Message-Id: <12-v3-225de1400dfc+4e074-vfio1_jgg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>