fbmem: Check virtual screen sizes in fb_set_var()

Verify that the fbdev or drm driver correctly adjusted the virtual
screen sizes. On failure report the failing driver and reject the screen
size change.

Signed-off-by: Helge Deller <deller@gmx.de>
Reviewed-by: Geert Uytterhoeven <geert@linux-m68k.org>
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # v5.4+