spi: spi-geni-qcom: Fail new xfers if xfer/cancel/abort pending

If we got a timeout when trying to send an abort command then it means
that we just got 3 timeouts in a row:

1. The original timeout that caused handle_fifo_timeout() to be
   called.
2. A one second timeout waiting for the cancel command to finish.
3. A one second timeout waiting for the abort command to finish.

SPI is clocked by the controller, so nothing (aside from a hardware
fault or a totally broken sequencer) should be causing the actual
commands to fail in hardware.  However, even though the hardware
itself is not expected to fail (and it'd be hard to predict how we
should handle things if it did), it's easy to hit the timeout case by
simply blocking our interrupt handler from running for a long period
of time.  Obviously the system is in pretty bad shape if a interrupt
handler is blocked for > 2 seconds, but there are certainly bugs (even
bugs in other unrelated drivers) that can make this happen.

Let's make things a bit more robust against this case.  If we fail to
abort we'll set a flag and then we'll block all future transfers until
we have no more interrupts pending.

Fixes: 561de45f

 ("spi: spi-geni-qcom: Add SPI driver support for GENI based QUP")
Signed-off-by: Douglas Anderson <dianders@chromium.org>
Reviewed-by: Stephen Boyd <swboyd@chromium.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20201217142842.v3.2.Ibade998ed587e070388b4bf58801f1107a40eb53@changeid
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>