drm/shmem-helper: Don't use vmap_use_count for dma-bufs

DMA-buf core has its own refcounting of vmaps, use it instead of drm-shmem
counting. This change prepares drm-shmem for addition of memory shrinker
support where drm-shmem will use a single dma-buf reservation lock for
all operations performed over dma-bufs.

Reviewed-by: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Dmitry Osipenko <dmitry.osipenko@collabora.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/all/20230108210445.3948344-7-dmitry.osipenko@collabora.com/