KVM: Use syscore_ops instead of reboot_notifier to hook restart/shutdown

Use syscore_ops.shutdown to disable hardware virtualization during a
reboot instead of using the dedicated reboot_notifier so that KVM disables
virtualization _after_ system_state has been updated.  This will allow
fixing a race in KVM's handling of a forced reboot where KVM can end up
enabling hardware virtualization between kernel_restart_prepare() and
machine_restart().

Rename KVM's hook to match the syscore op to avoid any possible confusion
from wiring up a "reboot" helper to a "shutdown" hook (neither "shutdown
nor "reboot" is completely accurate as the hook handles both).

Opportunistically rewrite kvm_shutdown()'s comment to make it less VMX
specific, and to explain why kvm_rebooting exists.

Cc: Marc Zyngier <maz@kernel.org>
Cc: Oliver Upton <oliver.upton@linux.dev>
Cc: James Morse <james.morse@arm.com>
Cc: Suzuki K Poulose <suzuki.poulose@arm.com>
Cc: Zenghui Yu <yuzenghui@huawei.com>
Cc: kvmarm@lists.linux.dev
Cc: Huacai Chen <chenhuacai@kernel.org>
Cc: Aleksandar Markovic <aleksandar.qemu.devel@gmail.com>
Cc: Anup Patel <anup@brainfault.org>
Cc: Atish Patra <atishp@atishpatra.org>
Cc: kvm-riscv@lists.infradead.org
Signed-off-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Acked-by: Marc Zyngier <maz@kernel.org>
Message-Id: <20230512233127.804012-2-seanjc@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>