block: consolidate the shutdown logic in blk_mark_disk_dead and del_gendisk

blk_mark_disk_dead does very similar work a a section of del_gendisk:

 - set the GD_DEAD flag
 - set the capacity to zero
 - start a queue drain

but del_gendisk also sets QUEUE_FLAG_DYING on the queue if it is owned by
the disk, sets the capacity to zero before starting the drain, and both
with sending a uevent and kernel message for this fake capacity change.

Move the exact logic from the more heavily used del_gendisk into
blk_mark_disk_dead and then call blk_mark_disk_dead from del_gendisk.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Acked-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230601094459.1350643-5-hch@lst.de


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>