io_uring: add full-fledged dynamic buffers support

Hook buffers into all rsrc infrastructure, including tagging and
updates.

Suggested-by: Bijan Mottahedeh <bijan.mottahedeh@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Pavel Begunkov <asml.silence@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/119ed51d68a491dae87eb55fb467a47870c86aad.1619356238.git.asml.silence@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>