block: add a queue_limits_set helper

Add a small wrapper around queue_limits_commit_update for stacking
drivers that don't want to update existing limits, but set an
entirely new set.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240228225653.947152-2-hch@lst.de
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>