btrfs: move cond_wake_up functions out of ctree

The file ctree.h serves as a header for everything and has become quite
bloated. Split some helpers that are generic and create a new file that
should be the catch-all for code that's not btrfs-specific.

Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>