fuse: add feature flag for expire-only

Add an init flag idicating whether the FUSE_EXPIRE_ONLY flag of
FUSE_NOTIFY_INVAL_ENTRY is effective.

This is needed for backports of this feature, otherwise the server could
just check the protocol version.

Fixes: 4f8d3702 ("fuse: add "expire only" mode to FUSE_NOTIFY_INVAL_ENTRY")
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v6.2
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>