locks: New ops in lock_manager_operations for get/put owner

NFSD or other lockmanager may increase the owner's reference,
so adds two new options for copying and releasing owner.

v5: change order from 2/6 to 3/6
v4: rename lm_copy_owner/lm_release_owner to lm_get_owner/lm_put_owner

Reviewed-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@primarydata.com>
Signed-off-by: Kinglong Mee <kinglongmee@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@primarydata.com>