bpf: also improve pattern matches for meta access

Follow-up to 0fd4759c

 ("bpf: fix pattern matches for direct
packet access") to cover also the remaining data_meta/data matches
in the verifier. The matches are also refactored a bit to simplify
handling of all the cases.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>