btrfs: add tracepoints for ordered extents

When debugging a reference counting issue with ordered extents, I've found
we're lacking a lot of tracepoint coverage in the ordered extent code.

Close these gaps by adding tracepoints after every refcount_inc() in the
ordered extent code.

Reviewed-by: Boris Burkov <boris@bur.io>
Reviewed-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Anand Jain <anand.jain@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Johannes Thumshirn <johannes.thumshirn@wdc.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>