RDMA/rxe: Protext kernel index from user space

In order to prevent user space from modifying the index that belongs to
the kernel for shared queues let the kernel use a local copy of the index
and copy any new values of that index to the shared rxe_queue_bus struct.

This adds more switch statements which decreases the performance of the
queue API. Move the type into the parameter list for these functions so
that the compiler can optimize out the switch statements when the explicit
type is known. Modify all the calls in the driver on performance paths to
pass in the explicit queue type.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20210527194748.662636-4-rpearsonhpe@gmail.com
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-rdma/20210526165239.GP1002214@@nvidia.com/
Signed-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>