drm/i915/ddi: Align timeout for DDI_BUF_CTL active with Bspec

For Gen12+ wait for 1ms for Combo Phy and 3ms for TC Phy for
DDI_BUF_CTL to be active for TC phy. (Bspec:49190)

v2: Minor refactoring for better readability.

v3: Rebased and retained the order of checking platforms. (Imre)

Signed-off-by: Ankit Nautiyal <ankit.k.nautiyal@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20221207145436.1510625-1-ankit.k.nautiyal@intel.com