net: netlink: add helper to retrieve NETLINK_F_STRICT_CHK

Dumps can read state of the NETLINK_F_STRICT_CHK flag from
a field in the callback structure.  For non-dump GET requests
we need a way to access the state of that flag from a socket.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>