bpf: Refactor bpf specific tcp optnames to a new function

The patch moves all bpf specific tcp optnames (TCP_BPF_XXX)
to a new function bpf_sol_tcp_setsockopt().  This will make
the next patch easier to follow.

Reviewed-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220817061812.4179645-1-kafai@fb.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>