nexthop: Extract dump filtering parameters into a single structure

Requests to dump nexthops have many attributes in common with those that
requests to dump buckets of resilient NH groups will have. In order to make
reuse of this code simpler, convert the code to use a single structure with
filtering configuration instead of passing around the parameters one by
one.

Signed-off-by: Petr Machata <petrm@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: David Ahern <dsahern@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>