vdpa: mlx5: prevent cvq work from hogging CPU

A userspace triggerable infinite loop could happen in
mlx5_cvq_kick_handler() if userspace keeps sending a huge amount of
cvq requests.

Fixing this by introducing a quota and re-queue the work if we're out
of the budget (currently the implicit budget is one) . While at it,
using a per device work struct to avoid on demand memory allocation
for cvq.

Fixes: 5262912e

 ("vdpa/mlx5: Add support for control VQ and MAC setting")
Signed-off-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220329042109.4029-1-jasowang@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Eli Cohen <elic@nvidia.com>