iommufd: Add additional invariant assertions

These are on performance paths so we protect them using the
CONFIG_IOMMUFD_TEST to not take a hit during normal operation.

These are useful when running the test suite and syzkaller to find data
structure inconsistencies early.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/18-v6-a196d26f289e+11787-iommufd_jgg@nvidia.com


Tested-by: Yi Liu <yi.l.liu@intel.com>
Tested-by: Matthew Rosato <mjrosato@linux.ibm.com> # s390
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>